ppl who think that saying “I love you” to someone a lot makes it lose it’s meaning are so boring literally what could make you think that? if someone tells you they love you like 3 times in an hour it means that 3 separate times they were sitting there and thinking about you and how wonderful you are like. smh. say I love you to everyone that you love as often as possible bc sometimes it’s easy to forget that there are people who love you
I think what people meant was if you say it to a lot of people i.e. If you date a lot of people and say it really soon to each one of those persons and throw it around really casually, it becomes less personal and more of a generic remark than a heartfelt confession. Not in the sense you say it too much to somebody.
I say I love you a lot and to a lot of my close friends but only when I feel it, like when we have a heart to heart or when they make me laugh really hard and I truly appreciate them being in my life.
Saying “I love you” should have emotion attached to it, and if you say it with true feelings and emotions behind it it will never lose it’s standings.